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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
Let me introduce today's guests.
She is a singer with both beauty and great singing abilities.
Seo In Young!
(Singer, Seo In Young)
She also is a singer with both great singing abilities and beauty.
Luna!
Hello.
- A comedian, Yun Sung Ho! - Yung Sung Ho!
(Comedian, Yun Sung Ho)
He has returned as a newlywed groom.
It's Mighty Mouth's SHORRY!
(Mighty Mouth's SHORRY)
Handsome actor, Dong Hyun Bae.
(Handsome actor, Dong Hyun Bae)
Welcome.
- In Young. - Yes?
- Long time no see. - I know.
How have you been?
- Me? - Yes.
A lot of things happened.
Yes, indeed.
You have released a new song.
- Yes, it's a ballad. - Ballad?
Then can you sing a little bit for us?
(Sing us your song.)
("Believe Me" by Seo In Young)
Are you comfortable now?
(Her sweet voice...)
(warms up the cold winter.)
(Awesome)
- She's good. - She's a great singer.
"Believe Me".
I heard...
that Luna has a great interest in diet and beauty.
Yes, I own my own channel called, "Luna's Alphabet",
on YouTube.
So you are a YouTube creator?
Yes.
Can you tell us in detail how we can stay healthy...
while staying in shape.
- I'll teach you some movements. - Sounds good.
- She sounds like a professional. - First,
put your weight on your big toes.
Breathe in.
Breathe in and raise your arms.
Keep your back straight.
Like this.
(Slowly bend down while keeping your back straight.)
Slowly bend down as you breathe out.
So it's like a squat.
- How much is she going down? - Oh, wow.
- How is she doing that? - From here...
Didn't she just drop to the floor?
Again, you breathe in.
It's not easy to come back up.
(Slowly come up as you breathe out)
Repeat this 30 times.
- 30 times? - Gosh.
Repeat it in the morning, afternoon, and night.
Do it in your spare time. You can do it anywhere.
If you do a set of 30,
your body will be soaked in sweat.
- That's right. - So I can do it...
before I do my business in bathroom?
- Yes, when I'm in bathroom, - On your toilet seat?
I sit in this posture.
When you're at a rest stop?
There's no need to go into such details.
- So you squat like that? - Yes.
Thank you.
Luna has become healthy and fit,
and her seat is placed in the best spot as well.
- My seat? - Yes.
You're sitting in the spotlight.
She also has double headlights beside her.
That's right, Sung Ho and SHORRY are your headlights.
Shine a light for her.
What is your best side?
- Left or right? - Left.
Left? Okay, come here.
(Shiny)
We'll shine on you.
Is there a reason why you two came together today?
You guys are like a duo.
Bald people like us...
share a bond of sympathy.
Don't you get frostbite on your head due to the cold?
Yes, it's killing me.
- That's right. - It's freezing.
I've heard your head gets really cold.
During a cold wave, people usually suffer from freezing hands.
And don't they get itchy when they suddenly get warm?
- That's right. - That's what happens to my scalp.
Then shouldn't you apply moisturizer?
I do that.
- Really? - Really?
Is this how you apply it?
Like when you wash your face?
- No, seriously. - Like this?
- Am I a cartoon character? - From the face?
I'm just curious.
That's a bit exaggerated. First, I apply it on my face,
and then on my scalp like this.
By the way, SHORRY always...
looks the same.
- He looks so young. - Yes, he does.
He looks very young.
Let's take a look at a picture of him 10 years ago.
(Surprised)
- They look the same. - Exactly the same.
- Which one is from 10 years ago? - The left one from is 10 years ago,
- and the right is recent, right? - Amazing.
- Oh, wow. - They look the same.
I thought the older picture was the one on the right.
- The left is from 10 years ago. - The left is from 10 years ago?
- The one with darker skin tone. - Darker skin tone?
He hasn't aged at all.
By the way, congratulations...
on your wedding.
(Congratulations)
- He's a newlywed groom. - I know.
Thank you.
I heard that you had a private wedding...
- with just your family members. - Yes, that's right.
It was a quiet wedding. Thank you for congratulating us.
Dong Hyun Bae.
I just found out when I read the script.
Your brother is Taeyang?
- Yes. - That's right.
- How come I had no idea? - He's Taeyang's brother.
Really?
When you see him enjoying his married life,
don't you envy him?
Yes, I do.
Since I live by myself, I feel so lonely.
When I feel lonesome,
- I watch TV. - You talk to the TV.
And I talk to myself, "My goodness, how pitiful..."
I know what that is.
- That's right. - That's right.
It eventually grows into a habit.
When you get too excited after you get drunk,
you are like, "That's not right, you punk!"
- You talk to yourself. - That's right.
When I see myself in the mirror...
(How pathetic.)
I tear up because I look so pathetic.
I totally agree.
I desperately want to get married.
He makes an effort.
He calls me.
- Calls you? - He calls me.
He asked me to set him up with a friend of mine.
Really?
- That's very manly. - Why don't you just ask her out?
I was looking through SHORRY's social media,
and her lifestyle aroused my interest.
- I'm curious. - She seemed nice.
Today, three worries have arrived.
Show us the keywords please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
"A Comprehensive Set of Worries". "Please Come Back".
"Love Is so Hard".
This person...
sent us the story,
because he's longing to meet someone.
"Please Come Back".
How sad.
Hello, I'm a hardworking, earnest guy in my 20s.
I've started working at a small cocktail bar...
from the beginning of this year.
It was my first time working at a cocktail bar.
My boss taught me everything from the history of cocktails,
to recipes.
- Things were going well. - He seems nice.
But a week after I started working, I was put on an emergency alert.
(The employee, the boss)
"Boss, where are you?"
"We need to order the liquor today."
"You do it."
(The boss is apathetic.)
"The customers are looking for you."
"You can take care of it."
I've only worked here for a week,
and he has put me in charge of everything.
He never shows up.
Furthermore, few months ago,
he said, "I won't be available for a while."
"Why? What's going on?"
"I got a new job."
My goodness.
(What about his own bar?)
Seriously?
He has his own bar to run.
And he got a new job?
"Boss, I'm having a hard time running the bar by myself."
"Can you please come more often?"
"I'm sorry. You're working so hard because of me."
"But... keep it up! Good luck!"
(Keep it up, good luck!)
I can't stand it anymore.
I'm very curious what he's doing right now.
Please send my boss back to our bar.
Come back.
This is interesting.
It reminds me...
There was a pub near my school campus.
I worked there for a year and a half.
That's right, Tae Gyun was always working...
when we went there after school.
- Awesome. - It was a popular pub.
A month after I started working,
the chef quit.
Suddenly, I was assigned to the kitchen.
From then, I started to cook.
I made a sausage and vegetable dish,
- and spicy whelk salad. - They sound delicious.
My boss didn't hire a new chef.
- Because your cooking was not bad. - Because my cooking was not bad.
So you were like a boss.
Almost.
His boss has left him in charge...
and never shows up.
Please come on out.
(Who is having a hard time because of his boss?)
(Kim Hyo Joong)
(Welcome)
Please introduce yourself.
Are you embarrassed?
- Are you trying to act cute? - No, I'm not.
- Acting cute! - I'm nervous.
It's okay, please introduce yourself.
Hello, I'm 26-year-old Kim Hyo Joong from Seoul.
How long has it been since your boss last came to the bar?
- I've worked since February. - I see.
He taught me recipes for a week.
(He taught me recipes for a week.)
He hasn't shown up ever since.
Even if he comes, he only stays for about five minutes.
Five minutes?
He encouraged me, and then he left.
Now, he doesn't come at all.
Then are there other part-timers or you work alone?
I work alone.
That's not easy.
- You must be tired. - You work alone?
So you do all the cooking and serving?
Yes, I get ready to open, make cocktails,
serve, and clean dishes.
But the bar is not that big.
- It's a bar. - It's a bar?
So we have about 2 to 3 tables.
- But still, it mustn't be easy. - She's right.
Because he works alone.
Do you know why your boss doesn't come to work?
He suddenly wanted to...
learn how to operate an excavator.
An excavator?
- An excavator? Really? - Heavy equipment?
So he got a license.
It turns out, he collects licenses as a hobby.
- He collects licenses? - Licenses?
- I found out afterwards. - He's obsessed.
From large buses to boats and forklifts...
And there's the type of car that pulls airplanes.
- That's right. - You see them at airports.
He wanted to learn how to drive that too.
- That too? - And then...
he got a job at Incheon International Airport.
That's where he got a job?
- At the airport? - At the airport?
That's incredible. Does he still work there?
- He quit a few months ago. - He quit.
Has he been coming to work since then?
Once in a while.
- Once a day? - Once a month.
- Once a month? - Once a month?
He's worse than a regular customer.
- That's right. - He's worse than a customer.
A customer could come once a week.
These days, he wants to learn how to fly an airplane.
- Airplane? - Airplane?
- He wants to become a pilot? - He wants to become a pilot?
He suddenly began preparing for it.
He has licenses for land, water, and air.
- He can drive a boat too. - With a pilot license,
he'll have licenses for land, sea, and air transport.
Why don't we talk to...
- his boss? - Is he here?
- Yes. - He's not preparing for a license?
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Hello. - He's very young.
You're very handsome.
- He is. - What if we tell him he's handsome,
and he begins preparing to become an actor?
To be an actor, you don't need a license.
(Hyun Bae discourages him.)
Do you understand your employee?
To be honest, I don't.
I'm wondering if he's here today...
as a joke.
I really don't understand.
How could you visit your bar only once a month?
There are many things I want to do.
So I just leave everything to my employee.
I need to get the training to obtain...
a pilot license.
So I trained my employee well.
There's something I want to, so I'm taking a step back from the bar.
Why do you want to get a pilot license?
I just... Among land, sea, and air transport,
the only thing missing is a pilot license.
(That doesn't justify your behavior.)
- What other licenses do you have? - Do you?
I have too many, so I brought them. Do you want to see them?
You brought them?
Sean Lee, can you...
(He was attacked without notice.)
- He's SHORRY. - He's SHORRY.
He has so many kinds.
You should work out.
(He has a pile of licenses.)
This is a license for scuba diving, and this one is for judo.
This is a lifeguard license I got in the US.
- He's amazing. - This is for heavy equipment.
It's for both forklifts and excavators.
- That's interesting. - And...
- a basketball referee license. - A basketball referee license?
- That's so interesting. - You have one for boats too, right?
- I'm interested. - This is...
for driving small boats.
You have that too?
Is there any special reason why you started collecting licenses?
When I become interested in something, I have to try it.
- He likes new challenges. - And while you're at it,
it's always good to earn something.
I'm sure, every time In Young buys a pair of shoes,
she feels very rewarded too.
- I used to. - By the way...
What's your ultimate goal?
My ultimate goal is...
to enjoy every moment.
I didn't get an excavator license to really dig the ground.
I just wanted to learn it.
It's that simple.
Then why did you...
start your bar?
Before, I used to work in an office,
and I started to really enjoy cocktails.
I wanted to be able to make them myself at home.
When I started doing that,
I found out about the license.
When I got the license, I thought I could start a bar.
That's how he started.
You sent us your story because you're having a hard time, right?
- Yes. - If it was a joke, you failed.
(If it was a joke, he failed.)
Don't you think you're irresponsible as his boss?
No. I'm doing everything...
I'm supposed to do as the owner.
- I pay him every month. - Okay.
I take the whole staff out to dinner every month.
- But he's your only employee. - But he's your only employee.
- I mean the 2 of us. - The 2 of you?
Yes, you're right.
It's the whole staff.
He does take the whole staff out.
If Hyo Joong can't make it,
things would become awkward.
(It'd become awkward.)
- What else? - And...
- He's serious. - Most importantly,
I even set him up with a girl.
(He set his employee up with a girl.)
Isn't that the most important thing?
- Did it go well? - Then you shouldn't be here.
(He stabbed his boss in the back.)
He didn't exactly set me up with a girl.
My girlfriend is our regular customer.
- Your girlfriend? - Your girlfriend?
- Yes. - I played a bigger part.
My boss...
My boss did help me a little, but...
When the boss is away,
isn't it your job to run the place?
You're right, but we had an agreement.
- What agreement? - When I started,
I was supposed to work just 20 days a month.
- I have another job too. - I see.
- 20 days a month? - Yes.
So I said yes.
But no matter how you look at it,
opening 20 days isn't enough to run the bar.
- I can't get paid, - In terms of sales?
and my boss won't make any money.
My boss would have to work an additional eight days...
for him to be able to...
- pay me. - He's being too indirect.
He just wants to get paid more.
- That's right. - For the additional eight days.
- For the additional eight days. - He wants a raise.
My goodness.
- That's right. - Is he right?
- He's supposed to work 20 days. - Is that what you get paid?
And that's how much he gets paid.
But he's now working eight extra days.
(Honestly, I think it's unfair.)
Shouldn't you do something about it?
I think that I should do something about it,
but by the end of this year,
I have to prepare for the final test for a pilot license.
I'd love to help him out,
but I just don't have enough time.
Don't your customers complain about your boss being away?
- Right. - Of course.
All our regular customers come to see my boss.
They always ask for him.
And I tell them I don't know where he is.
(He doesn't know.)
- You don't know. - I tell him he's on vacation.
We get a lot of complaints too.
Like what?
My boss has his own recipes.
- He has his signature cocktail. - That's important.
And he hasn't told me how to make it.
- Why? - Why didn't you teach him?
- Whose bar is it? - Why did you do that?
(Embarrassed)
I tell the customers I don't know how to make it.
You don't know anything?
It looks like that.
Once, the customers insisted.
So we had to put our heads together.
- You made it together? - We tried it.
- That's so funny. - Unbelievable.
We tried it, but they still complain.
Why didn't you teach him?
- If you were going to be away... - It's your bar.
I need a secret weapon.
Isn't it your bar?
There must be customers...
- who come to have that drink. - Right.
How long are you planning to go on like this?
This year,
I have to prepare for a pilot license.
Stop talking about airplanes!
Why do you even have to do that?
Next year, if I don't get any new interests,
I'll do my best...
Do you have anything in your mind?
Isn't this a serious problem?
If I fail to get a pilot license,
I'm interested in working as a crew member on a cruise.
- Cruise? - Cruise?
Then he'll be away for months.
(Then he'll be away for months.)
- My goodness. - To tour around Europe...
(What should I do?)
I want to ask a question.
Your boss says it's only by the end of this year.
Why don't you trust him?
It seems like he has a lot of hobbies.
- Hobbies. - That's why I can't trust him.
Do you have any hobbies?
All I do is work.
He probably doesn't have any time.
I have no special hobbies.
When there's a strong wind,
I go kitesurfing.
- We go to Apgujeong-dong. - But it's not windy every day.
When the weather gets cold,
I go skiing.
But I don't do that all year.
In addition to that,
I play basketball every Sunday.
On Saturdays, I play baseball.
When I have time, I play golf too.
- Are you... - He has so many hobbies.
Are you in any other clubs?
Look at all the equipment.
(His room is full of equipment.)
- It's all sports equipment. - That's not all of it, is it?
No.
Do you go camping too?
Indoor surfing.
He's good.
- Wakeboarding. - Wakeboarding.
Wakeboarding.
(Is that him?)
Is that you?
- Snowboarding. - Snowboarding.
(Snowboarding)
Motorcycling.
(Skateboarding)
It's an electric skateboard.
Golf.
Racquetball.
(And...)
The excavator.
(Everyone is shocked at the ultimate hobby.)
The excavator.
(He's proud of himself.)
(Deeply sighing)
Gosh.
It's unbelievable.
I heard he has another interesting hobby.
I've been collecting cigarettes as a hobby...
for about 15 years. I have more than 2,000 packs.
- 2,000? - 2,000?
(How long will it take to smoke all that?)
I don't smoke, though.
- What's that? - Are those cigarettes?
- Cigarettes? - It reminds me of my shoes.
I thought that was a pharmacy.
There's so many. How unique.
There are many different kinds.
(The boxes are full of cigarettes.)
- It's full of cigarettes. - It's full of cigarettes.
(Shocked)
- Unbelievable. - Out of 2,000 packs,
did you bring 100 or 200?
Each box has about 330 packs.
So there are about 600 in total.
Are they all different?
Yes, they are all different.
- They are different. - Wow.
(A collection of unique cigarettes without any duplicates)
I haven't seen these ones. This is Doraji.
Doraji, it's an old brand.
(I think I saw them in a museum.)
That's amazing.
This one has coffee on the pack. What is it?
I think they are coffee-scented cigarettes.
I haven't smoked them.
[VIU Ver] E393 Hello Counselor "When You Lose Sight of What's Important" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
These cigarettes are called, "Long Life".
(The cigarette brand is "Long Life".)
- Are you serious? - Long life.
All while you smoke away.
(Live a long life while smoking.)
I was driving by a restaurant,
there was a man there...
smoking on the street.
But he was still thinking of his health.
He was doing squats with a cigarette in his mouth.
(He wants to live long, so he does squats.)
He wanted to live long.
Long life.
Why do you collect cigarettes if you don't smoke?
I first started collecting cigarettes...
when I was working as an intern abroad.
I was in Indonesia at that time.
The person at the supermarket...
looked very much like Jun Ji Hyun.
You don't smoke, but you went to buy cigarettes?
Yes, I went once a day because she was pretty.
Cigarettes were the cheapest item.
That's a very amusing motive.
I started collecting one a day, and it's been 15 years since I started.
(He sure is tenacious.)
Do you think other people saw me and felt this way too?
- Yes. - Oh, yes.
- Yes. - Is it necessary to go that far?
(I... I see.)
(I understand how you feel.)
By the way, do you date?
- I don't think he'd have the time. - At that rate...
You wouldn't have the time.
- Do you date? - Yes, I do.
Yes, I date.
- Oh, really? - When?
Tell me when you can date.
So you have a girlfriend?
Yes, I've had a girlfriend for seven years.
Really?
But does she consider you boyfriend too?
(He's suspicious.)
That's the important part.
You could be imagining it on your own.
Yes, we've agreed to get married next spring.
- I do have a girlfriend. - Really?
How much time do you spend together?
Besides the time I've told you about,
I spend the rest with her.
You said you can't even go to the bar.
8pm to 2am.
- I see now. - Does she know you own a bar?
You can't go because of your girlfriend.
- You have no time. - He has no time.
I completely understand.
He studies during the day.
(Was he doing that without me knowing?)
If we look at your hobby,
it's not something one can do if you're not financially comfortable.
That's true.
Doesn't it cost a lot?
I think I've spent over 10,000 dollars on the cigarettes here.
I've spent about 7,000 dollars on kite surfing.
And about 3,000 dollars on my motorcycle.
Do I have to say all of this? It's getting kind of sad.
(Getting sad...)
- The mood is... - No.
Are you able to afford all of this?
I got my severance pay. What else will I do with that?
I should spend on the things that I like.
I got some help from financial advisers.
If that doesn't work out, I'll use my last resort of parents.
- Your parents? - Yes.
Does your family know you do this?
The sister that I'm closest to is...
my second oldest sister, and she does nag me often.
But she doesn't mind too much.
While we've been laughing all of this time,
there was a woman over there with a dark face.
- That is his older sister. - Oh, is it?
(Older sister)
Did you know about your brother's hobbies?
Yes, I knew to some extent.
When he opened a cocktail bar,
I didn't think he'd quit his job.
I thought he was doing it as a hobby, but he quit.
From my perspective, I really don't understand it.
And I didn't think he'd still be living this way.
It also costs a lot of money,
so you must be worried.
To be honest, he told my father that...
he would need money for a house deposit.
So he borrowed some money from him.
He then used that to open a cocktail bar.
Oh, he used that money.
Later, his lie was exposed.
He got into big trouble by my dad.
(He got in trouble for lying.)
From your point of view as his sister,
what are you most worried about?
I mentioned this before already.
I think living alone could be a good idea,
and I told him to think about it.
- For what reason? - In this current state...
if it were me,
I wouldn't marry him.
That's why.
I'm just thankful...
that she's by his side right now.
I wonder if the person who is to marry him...
will send us a letter by next winter or so.
You never know.
(Oh, dear.)
(That's valid.)
Besides your sister, what do your parents say?
My father and sister say...
we shouldn't give him money and let him figure it out himself.
They are very cold about it.
Our mother passed away five years ago from liver cancer.
Oh, no.
He had always been close to our mom.
He got worse after our mom passed away.
- It must be from the void. - Yes.
He had such a good relationship with her.
Even now he says things like,
"I had a dream last night, and Mom says she wants chocolate."
"I'm going to go to her grave with some chocolate."
Then he'll go the very next day.
("I'm going to go to her grave with some chocolate.")
I think he went through a hard time.
I'm sure he did.
I don't want to lecture him when he's all grown up.
(She's watching him until he finishes mourning.)
Is your sister correct that you got worse...
after saying goodbye to your mom?
I witnessed the loss and pain of a beloved family member,
all in a short time span.
So I realized that you cannot delay the joys of life.
You never know when you will die.
You may never enjoy them. I'm thinking of my mom.
So I'm saying to myself that I won't live that way.
In my opinion,
I want to challenge myself to do new things if I can.
Money is not what's important.
Enjoying the present is what's important.
That's YOLO.
(Enjoying the present is more important than money.)
As a fellow man, you understand that a bit, right?
It's my first time hearing this.
- Really? - Yes.
I never get to see him, for one thing.
(He never sees him.)
That is true.
(I totally understand.)
- How do you feel hearing it? - Hearing this...
I don't feel good about it.
But I am worried.
Whenever he gets into his hobbies,
he gets injured and ends up with a cast.
- He went to the ER a lot. - Really?
For real?
People can get hurt doing sports.
I was playing basketball, and I hurt my back.
I ended up being unable to move.
- Were you paralyzed? - Yes.
One time, I went to Okinawa to kite surf.
I went alone when I was just a beginner.
I went adrift, and the locals there...
came to rescue me.
As for this problem,
I don't think it's something you need to worry about.
Why bother worrying about your boss or the store?
You can just quit.
I have thought about that every now and then.
I have too much affection.
- The store... - You haven't known him that long.
- No, the bar! - Not my boss.
Oh, the bar.
- The bar. - Not towards my boss.
He meant for the bar.
He barely sees his boss.
What will you do if your employee quits?
What will you do?
- If he says, "I quit." - Right now.
Honestly, I never thought about it...
because I know how affectionate he is.
That's not fair.
- You can't use that. - That's right.
There's something you don't understand.
No matter how affectionate a person is,
if he breaks up with his girlfriend,
when he goes to work, he'll constantly think of her.
- So true. - That's what it's like.
It's like that.
You're right.
Are you that type,
or are you the type to go, "Where's the next customer?"
(Resume scanning)
What type are you?
(I've brought in a baby tiger.)
A regular customer is here today.
A regular customer?
- I've been going for about a year. - A year.
I'm a regular customer and a friend.
We came up to Seoul from the same hometown.
I see.
Do you think your friend seems to be going through a hard time?
When all of our friends meet up for a gathering,
we all wonder if he ever gets any sleep.
- We all wonder that. - I'm sure.
Most people get tired from doing just one job.
I know that he only has one day off during the week.
It must be so difficult.
Once, all our friends planned to go on a trip.
He told his boss about a week in advance.
He told him that he's going on a trip...
and that he saved up for a year for the trip.
He asked for the time off.
He rarely asks for time off, so he was sure he'd get it.
All our friends from back home came up,
but he couldn't get in contact with his boss.
- His boss? - Yes.
- He went into hiding. - What happened?
So we all helped him at work until early morning.
(They all worked until early morning.)
- They're loyal. - They're such good friends.
We cleaned, closed up, and left.
He told you a week in advance.
Where did you go, and why didn't you pick up your phone?
- Were you adrift at sea? - What license were you going for?
Were you adrift in Okinawa?
(I cannot take your call right now.)
What were you doing?
I was on vacation.
(Completely betrayed)
You've gone too far.
(He's gone too far.)
It's because I trust him. I trust him completely.
He does everything well without me asking.
How good is he at his job?
(Just how good is he at his job?)
But having an employee like this is really...
- It's a blessing. - It really is.
When I see you,
- you're slightly selfish. - Yes.
You only think of yourself.
There is the factor of stress.
I think your employee has a lot built up.
You need to let him release that immediately.
Where will you find another person like him?
- You're right. - There aren't any.
Someone, let's say Sung Ho, could be a diligent employee,
but he could end up taking all of his boss' money.
(My boss' money is my money.)
Yeong Ja, I never took anything.
It's just that conduct...
starts with what one is thinking.
(Conduct begins with thought.)
When you put it like that, it sounds like I took it.
Take this opportunity...
to say what you want to your boss.
Just tell him to give you the bar.
Why not?
(Speak comfortably)
What I really want is... You're the boss,
but my bar... I mean...
- My bar! - My bar?
(His true feelings were revealed.)
Go to the bar more often.
That's how much he thinks of the bar.
Please come often.
- I want to rest more too. - Of course.
I'm extremely exhausted.
- I'm so exhausted. - He must be.
I haven't been able to sleep in ages.
He is at his limit.
I want you to work at least 10 days in a month.
- That's right. He is making a deal. - He is making a deal.
- What do you say? - It's the least you can do.
It will be hard to do that this year.
- Next year, I will be sure... - Next year?
to hire a new employee who can help you.
- A new employee? - Will you be able to afford that?
I will hire a new employee who works 10 days a month.
- That sounds great. - All right.
- It's not that impressive. - Seriously.
Maybe his friend will become the new employee.
(Maybe his friend will become the new employee.)
- I think he will. - I had that thought.
(Me, too.)
Let's begin with SHORRY.
Okay. I think it's a worry.
You think it's a worry.
Hyo Joong is incredibly diligent...
and good at what he does.
If your boss doesn't keep his promise,
I will open something next to his.
Let's work together.
I will give you a share.
(It's a tempting offer.)
- Let's work together. - Anyone would want to hire him.
However, you have to invest as well.
(There is a condition.)
It has been a year...
since you worked overtime.
- It's affecting your happiness. - That's right.
I also think it's a worry.
- I also think it's a worry. - I see.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
You might think, "It must be convenient..."
"for Hyo Joong to work without a nagging boss."
However, there are decisions you need to make...
as a boss.
Hyo Joong didn't learn that because you were never present.
He must have felt anxious when he made important decisions.
- It must have been difficult. - As a hobby,
why don't you work part-time at your bar?
(Then he will know how hard it is to be an employee.)
- Seriously. - That's a good idea.
Please say a few words to your employee.
Right now, I call him by the name, "Black".
That's his nickname. As you can see right now,
he loves the color black.
He has black eyebrows as well. I will call him as I normally do.
- "Black." - "Black."
- Black. - "Black."
- "Black". - How cool!
This is my first time to be a boss.
From now on, I will take on my responsibility as a boss...
and help you at the bar as much as possible.
Please hang in a while longer.
- All right. - Thank you.
Let's work together forever.
(It's heartwarming.)
All right.
Please say a few words to your girlfriend.
- That's right. - "White."
- "White." - She has a pure white soul.
- Seriously. - Go ahead.
- I will use her nickname. - Okay.
- I call her "Bag Girl". - "Bag Girl"?
- "Bag Girl". - Yes.
- "Bag Girl"? - I use that nickname...
because we met at the airport when our bags got switched.
We were traveling separately.
- That's how the two of you met. - It's like a drama.
Your bags got switched.
Bag Girl, thank you so much...
for agreeing to marry me...
next year.
While I have many hobbies,
my biggest hobby is you.
(My biggest hobby is you.)
- He has a way with words. - Seriously.
- "My biggest hobby is you." - My goodness.
I will spend the most amount of money and time...
on my biggest hobby, so let's live happily together.
I love you.
I learned a good phrase.
"My biggest hobby is you."
I learned a good phrase.
Show us the result.
(The result)
Will the worry get over 100 votes?
Will the worry get...
It's like 108 afflictions of Buddhism.
(How many people in the audience related to the worry?)
188 votes?
138 votes.
(138 votes)
The title is, "Love Is So Hard".
Love is really hard.
Hello, I am a man who got married...
not too long ago.
Marriage is so hard.
Does everyone live this way?
"Honey, I am home."
"Gosh, you are insufferable!"
(That came out of nowhere.)
She slams the door shut. "Honey."
"What's wrong? What's wrong?"
"Forget it. Think carefully..."
"about why I am angry."
(Those words sound familiar.)
This is driving me crazy.
- The husband must be flustered. - This is driving me crazy.
My wife always becomes sullen.
The problem is that I never know the reason.
Really?
"What's wrong? Tell me."
"My gosh. When you came home from work,"
"you didn't pat me."
"I can't believe you!"
My goodness.
I don't get why it's something to get mad about.
"Fine. Fine. I am sorry."
"Here you go. You are satisfied, right?"
"All right. Let's go to bed."
"Good night."
(Sobbing)
She became sullen again.
"You are the worst."
"What? What is it this time?"
"What's wrong?"
You simply said, "Good night."
Back in the days, you said,
"Baby, good night."
"You are the worst."
(Sobbing)
(He can only laugh.)
- It's driving me crazy. - I can relate to this worry.
I don't understand her at all. The panelists of Hello,
please help me understand my wife's heart.
(Please help me understand my wife's heart.)
- SHORRY. - It would drive me up the wall.
- SHORRY. - I can relate to this worry.
- What? How? - Really?
I used to sing to my wife...
when she woke up.
Then she went, "You never sing to me these days."
She became sad about that.
I didn't understand women's language in the past.
I know more now because I have learned.
Women hope men would know what they want.
- That's right. - Let's say you asked her...
what she wants to eat and she said, "Anything".
That doesn't mean you can eat anything.
You have to ask. "How about sushi?"
"I am fine with that."
"How about army stew?" "I don't care what we eat."
"How about pasta?" "That sounds delicious."
- It's always like that. - You are right.
- Seriously. - You have to watch out for it.
"That sounds delicious." If one reaction is a bit stronger,
- I go, "This is it." - Here is what is important.
"How about sushi?" "I am fine with that."
She clearly doesn't want sushi, so you have to play along.
"Come to think of it, I don't really want sushi."
- That's right. - You are incredible.
- That's right. - That's perfect.
I didn't know about that.
Let's meet the frustrated husband...
who doesn't understand why his wife becomes sullen.
- I am curious about this worry. - Please come on out.
(Whose worry involves not knowing why his wife becomes sullen?)
(Jung Sung Yong)
Hello.
Hello, I am Jung Sung Yong, a 25-year-old from Changwon.
- He is from Changwon. - He is 25 years old.
He got married at a young age.
He is 25 years old.
You are here since it frustrates you to not know why...
- your wife becomes sullen. - Yes.
When my wife is sullen, I want to talk to her.
However, she refuses to talk to me. She tells me to think about...
why she is angry.
"Forget it. I won't tell you."
"Forget it. Think for yourself."
She doesn't talk for an hour or two.
- My goodness. - Really?
I used to show my wife three cute acts.
- Three cute acts? - What are they?
- Patting. - Do them.
- Do them on me. - Patting.
There is kissing, too.
- Okay. - Do it on him.
(Do it on him.)
Do it on him.
Go ahead.
- I kiss her and hug her. - You hug her.
Patting, kissing, and hugging.
When I come home from work,
I don't do them right away...
because I want to wash up first.
What happens if you go straight into the shower?
She slams the door.
She simply refuses to talk to me.
That happens if you don't kiss her.
That happens if I don't do any of the three cute acts.
There was something I used to say before going to bed.
- "Baby, good night." - I see.
- What was your tone of voice? - "Baby, good night."
- I used to say that... - He is sweet.
or ask her how her day was.
I don't do those things these days.
Why don't you do them these days?
- It's not that I love her any less. - Is it because you're tired?
It's tiresome to do those things.
- "You know how I feel." - That's right.
(How could he say that?)
"Do I need to do those things?"
- They are sullen. - They are sullen.
Does she become sullen every day? How frequent is it?
I think it happens once every two days.
When she is upset,
she hides her cell phone in the closet.
- Do you need to find it? - Yes.
(What kind of hide and seek is that?)
I need to find it and give it back to her.
When I asked her about it,
she said it's a protest which shows she doesn't want to talk.
- That's why she hides it. - That's right.
When she is really angry,
she throws her cell phone on the floor.
(She sometimes throws her cell phone on the floor.)
Then it would break.
It doesn't break.
She controlled her strength.
Was your wife always the type to become sullen?
She wasn't the type when we were dating.
Really? Was she different?
She changed after pregnancy and childbirth.
- It's understandable. - Maybe she has...
- postpartum depression. - It's plausible.
- It makes sense. - Those things happen.
How long has it been since she gave birth?
Two months.
- Then it's understandable. - She is still recovering.
- It's understandable. - That's right.
Let's talk to your wife. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is the wife who gets sullen every day?)
Your husband is frustrated...
because you become sullen too often.
Do you agree that you become sullen too often?
Yes, I think...
I become sullen very often.
You are smiling, but... You aren't sullen now, are you?
No, I am not.
- Why do you become sullen? - What are the reasons?
He used to show me three cute acts,
but he doesn't do it anymore.
It makes me think if he doesn't like me that much.
- Right. - He might forget it once or twice.
If he did at least 1 out of 3,
I wouldn't have gotten sulky.
He didn't do any of them.
He didn't do any of the three.
He didn't.
He didn't do any of the three.
How could you do that?
Can't you just do it as soon as you go home?
You can pat her, give her a kiss, and say, "Baby, good night."
(He sounded like an AI.)
Just do it as if it's your work.
- Is that not allowed? - Just do it like a robot?
You have to mean it.
(He politely apologizes.)
But he must get so frustrated when he comes home,
and you don't talk to him.
But I wait for him all day.
He goes straight to the bathroom.
In the past,
you used to hold her hands before washing your hands.
- She's... - He was fine with it before,
- used to it anyway. - so why does he wash hands now?
(I still feel the same.)
When you get sullen,
- you hide your phone. - Yes.
Why do you hide your phone?
I do it because I don't want to talk to him.
- It's a protest. - Yes.
You are upset,
but you don't know what to do about it.
So you hide your cell phone.
- Yes. - Instead of getting sullen,
you can tell him that you are sad that he's not sweet to you.
It's hard to have a conversation with him.
- Why? - It's awkward.
You don't like him doing it only when you tell him to do it.
You find talking to your husband difficult?
Why is it difficult?
It's not just talking to my husband that's hard.
I find it hard to have a small talk with other people.
- You... - It's hard for me.
- Is that your personality? - It's her personality.
It's her personality.
- You want him to just do it. - By the way,
I sympathize with her a lot.
If you don't mind, what if your blood type?
- Are we talking about blood type? - My blood type is A.
- A. - A.
- My goodness. - When I am...
with the other members and when I work,
I am quite timid.
She doesn't want to tell him this...
after he had a long day at work because it might cause a fight.
She let it go a few times,
but he still didn't change. That's why she gets sullen.
- Is that it? - Is she right?
Yes. She's right.
She put up with it many times.
- Right. - Many times.
Luna understood her,
but listening to Luna,
her husband became dumbfounded.
Can you understand...
what Luna is saying?
I can't quite understand it.
(You look like you can't.)
When was another time you felt frustrated...
because your wife wasn't talking to you?
One evening, I asked her.
- I asked her what she wants to eat. - "What do you want to eat?"
She said we can eat whatever I want.
- This is bad. Sung Ho. - She was just being nice.
Sung Ho.
When she says you can eat whatever you like,
- tell her what you want to eat. - You have to tell her.
No, she said we could have anything.
"Let's eat whatever you like."
So what did you say?
We ate pizza.
- Because you wanted to eat it? - You should've asked her.
When you ask, "How about pizza?" she would show her reaction.
Did you ask her if she's okay with pizza?
"Your stomach hurts when you eat pizza". She would say that.
- Then you shouldn't get that. - It means you can't get that.
- You shouldn't get that. - How can you still get it?
She said your stomach would hurt if you eat pizza.
Did you say, "I still want to eat pizza"?
She told me we could get whatever I want.
(She said they could get whatever he wants to get.)
Right. Right.
(They get very frustrated.)
You didn't interpret what she meant?
He doesn't understand his wife's language.
What was in your mind when you told him that...
he can eat anything he likes?
There was something you wanted to it, wasn't there?
There was something I wanted to eat.
- She doesn't have that. - But it changes every time.
- It changes every time. - Yes.
But you didn't want pizza since it makes him sick?
- It wasn't that. - What else?
- Go on. - It happened...
- when I was buying clothes. - When you were buying clothes.
Buying things is the biggest problem.
I like...
hip-hop style clothes.
But my wife wants me to dress neatly...
- since I am a father. - Right.
She doesn't let you wear what you want to wear.
- She doesn't let me wear. - Are you sulky because of that?
Did I?
I...
You began to sulk too?
Does your wife say to get whatever you want to wear?
When I tried on the clothes I want, she said she didn't like it.
She knows what she wants. She's already got the answer.
In the end, your wife...
seems to think that you have changed.
- Right. - Right.
You don't do the things you used to do to her.
What do you think about that?
(His eyes have lost the focus.)
- I... - You are spaced out.
Are you all right?
His wife isn't the only one he doesn't understand.
You understand what we are saying, right?
We are going to get sullen.
My blood type is A too!
- I am nervous. That's all. - You are nervous.
In my opinion,
I don't think I changed that much.
- You still feel the same. - I still feel the same.
But my wife doesn't see that.
Right. But...
when you realize that she's not happy with something,
you need to take an action and try to fix the situation.
Let's say you were playing a game.
And you realize that your wife is unhappily looking at you.
Then you should throw the controller and say, "It's ruining my life!"
You should do that.
Right. You have to take the action before she does.
Right. Right.
Does your wife get sensitive about...
other things too?
She gets offended by small jokes.
- Does she sulk from jokes? - Yes.
Sometimes she cries. I wonder if she intentionally cries.
What makes her cry?
- Why would she intentionally cry? - What do you mean?
It's because she gets hurt by...
the smallest jokes.
- Give us an example. - We can't understand it.
We started dating...
September 11 of last year.
As a joke,
he said, "Why did you meet me on September 11?"
He said that.
That made me sad.
He said, "I am going to leave this world."
- "Leave this world"? - What?
Why would you say that?
- What did you mean by that? - What did you mean?
- What world? - What world?
Are you Kim Du Han?
What did you mean by that?
I said it because I was really upset.
- He was upset. - I said it as a joke.
- You can't say that as a joke. - That's hurtful.
The bigger problem is that she gets jealous of our child.
(She gets jealous of their child.)
(What is going on?)
- She gets jealous of your child? - Right.
- Because you adore the child. - Why is that?
- Because you only... - I...
- Yes. - Tell us.
- She's crying. - Why?
She thinks you only adore the child.
- Tell us. - She's crying.
- Why are you crying? - Why are you crying?
(It's nothing.)
Can you tell us...
- why you are crying? - Tell us.
Why did you get tearful?
I realized we haven't...
talked in a long time.
I've been feeling sad and frustrated alone.
That's why I became emotional.
Did you suddenly think of them and cry?
Did you always cry a lot?
I used to cry quite a lot.
- But you cry even more now. - After I gave birth to a child,
I started crying more.
(Other people of her age are in college.)
(At the age of 23, she gave birth and started looking after a child.)
Please comfort her.
- Right. - By the way,
I think she is...
She's the elder sister of the cocktail bar owner.
- Be nice to her. - Someone had to comfort her.
She will give you fee cocktails.
Does she really feel jealous of your child?
- Yes. - What does she do?
As soon as I go home,
I ask her if she changed the baby's diaper,
if she cleaned,
and if she bathed the baby.
- You don't ask about her. - I don't.
I always ask her about the child.
You should ask her how her day was.
You kept asking her about the child.
Do you really feel jealous of your child?
Yes.
Before the child appeared,
- I was his priority. - "Appear"?
(Where did the baby appear from?)
- Where did she appear from? - I mean...
"Hello. I am your child."
(I am sorry, baby. I apologize.)
Before we had a baby,
I was his priority.
- After we had a baby, - After you had a baby...
I felt like I was pushed aside.
He doesn't say hi to me.
He only cares about the baby.
- It makes me think, "Who am I?" - After having a child...
It makes me think about strange things like that.
You don't know this because you lack experience.
"Did you change the diaper? Did you bathe the child?"
- That's like inspecting her. - Right.
"It must've been tough looking after the baby."
Checking those things as soon as getting home is...
like questioning her about whether or not if she did her job.
- Right. Right. - It might sound like that.
How do you feel now that you've heard us?
I sympathize with you.
Sympathize?
- How about this? - Come to your senses.
How about "Did you change the diaper, baby"?
(She loves it.)
- Or... - No.
"Baby" has to come first.
"Baby, did you change the diaper?"
(I get it now.)
I act so sensitive because...
my friends and family...
don't know that I had a child.
My and his immediate family members know.
But distant family members don't know.
Not many people know that you got married...
and had a child?
Right.
But you still came out on this show?
Is this a secret?
She wanted to tell everyone all at once.
When adults hear that a 23-year-old had a child,
they think a child had a child.
- They say that a lot. - Right.
We are rookie parents.
That's why we are clumsy at taking care of a child.
- It's only natural to be clumsy. - And it's tough.
People blame me and ask why I am so bad at looking after the child.
When I hear that,
I get really daunted.
That's why...
I end up crying. I feel bad.
- That's what happens. - Right.
To me, he's the only one I can rely on.
I want us to go on dates like other people,
- and I want to meet my friends. - Right.
But I can't do that.
That's why I felt sad.
(They formed a family with love for each other.)
(But the heavy responsibility that comes with being parents...)
(is still hard for them to bear.)
This is the time...
- you need to really good to her. - Right.
You should put all your attention on your wife.
He's probably thinking that he shouldn't have sent the story.
He's regretting sending his story in.
You should go over there, and your wife should come sit here.
They should change seats.
(The husband was being taciturn.)
Did you know she was thinking that?
A while ago, I asked my wife,
"What's wrong?"
She said she suffered from a postpartum depression.
I'm also new being a dad.
It hasn't been a year since I graduated from college.
And I'm still looking for a job.
- What about living expenses? - I have part-time jobs.
I know this great bar...
(It's a 2-birds-1-stone solution.)
What do you think?
You only have to work 10 days a month.
They are urgently employing.
(I can't raise my head.)
Also we've been living with my parents,
- since we got married. - I see.
Whenever she has complaints,
she can tell me when we are alone.
But she complains...
when my parents are home.
- She tells on you? - Yes, she tell on me.
When she does, my parents say, "You should help her..."
- "take care of the baby." - Help her with childcare.
"This is all because you're still immature."
"Don't even think about having a second child."
- Your mom must have been tired. - Seriously.
If I complain to him when his parents are not around,
he never listens.
I did that because I was frustrated.
I realized that her depression was serious when...
she said that if things are too hard,
- she'll move in with her parents. - Her parents' house?
Yes, her parents' house. But I can't imagine waking up...
and not having her beside me and being alone.
(She's so important to me that being without her scares me.)
Perhaps, you don't think that your husband doesn't love you.
Do you?
No, that's not it.
But I think he has become a bit negligent.
From now on, when something happens between you,
try not to tell his parents, but try to talk it out...
between the two of you.
If you keep hiding your phone,
and tell his parents on him,
you two won't learn how to communicate with each other.
You should talk to each other.
Do you feel uncomfortable around your husband?
I think I've been pushing him away subconsciously.
But you should keep one thing in mind.
Whether you like it or not, you are a mother.
Mothers bear a great responsibility.
The same goes for a father, you bear a responsibility.
You should have a strong will.
You can't always be a delicate girl.
You have a child to take care.
Is there anything you want from him?
He's a bit wasteful.
(He's a bit wasteful.)
Wasteful?
Are you wasteful?
He wastes toilet paper.
So he's wasteful with toilet paper, not money?
I see, you use a lot of toilet paper, but not money.
That reminds me of Jong Kook.
Usually, you do your laundry after they have piled up a bit, right?
- Yes. - But he runs the washer...
- with only small amount. - He does the laundry himself?
Yes.
You're even scolded for doing the laundry.
If he lets them pile up first, will it be all right?
Yes.
That's what she wants from you, do you think you can do that?
I'll try to be better from now on.
It's nice that you do the laundry.
It's a good thing, but do it after they have piled up.
Tell your husband what you want from him.
I mean, tell your wife.
(Slip of the tongue)
You are making me confused.
- They are cute. - What do you want from your wife?
- Tell your wife. - Tell her.
When something happens,
instead of saying, "No, I don't want to talk",
- Right. - let's have a conversation.
That's right, he's ready to talk.
Because you are my lifetime partner.
- So romantic. - He's so manly.
(You are my companion.)
I hope she can change.
Do you have a hobby?
I like to listen to music.
Listening to music?
What's your most favorite hobby?
My favorite?
That you met your wife?
(He raises his brows.)
(He raises his brows too.)
(This is really cheesy.)
My hair stood on end.
Is there anything that you want to do...
with him in your spare time?
On weekends,
he always entertains me.
(He entertains me during the weekend.)
- He does everything. - He's really good to her.
He does everything.
What's wrong then?
If I'm reborn as a woman, I want to marry him.
(He's mine.)
Me too.
My goodness.
During weekends, does he always entertain you and make you happy?
We go on dates.
- What is this? - Then...
Isn't he doing his best?
- Yes. - There's no man like him.
But if he misses any of the three cute acts...
(Embarrassed)
Don't you want your husband to feel at ease...
when he's out working?
- Yes. - Right?
How would he feel when you cry and get mad as he leaves?
He wouldn't be able to focus on work.
- It'll make him feel uncomfortable. - That's right.
He'll be feel bad all day long.
Most importantly, don't cry.
She's right, try not to cry.
Nothing will be resolved, if you cry.
For eight years, Dong Yeob has scolded me...
for getting sullen.
I used to be very grouchy.
She's not like that now.
Because she's a very considerate and thoughtful person,
she got hurt easily...
- from people's words. - Right.
So I told her not to get hurt by them.
Yes, but in the end, he's the one who hurt me.
I did?
- It's all because of Dong Yeob. - That's right.
Lastly, say a word to each other.
Sun Mi, thanks for mustering up the courage to come here and talk.
- He's cool. - I'll make more of an effort.
Let's live happily together.
Baby, I love you.
- My goodness. - Baby, I love you!
- Baby, I love you. - How sweet.
It's your turn now.
He calls you "baby", what do you call him?
Black?
- Beige? - That's the wrong person.
- White? - White!
I used to call him by a nickname...
- What is it? - A nickname?
Teddy bear.
How about Mr. and Mrs. Teddy?
- Mrs. Teddy! - Teddy.
Teddy!
You will definitely get a job soon,
so don't worry.
I hope you can be more confident.
Let's take good care...
of our child. I love you.
(How sweet.)
Let's vote.
- I don't think it's a worry. - You don't think it's a worry.
- I don't think it's a worry. - Okay.
- What do you think, Sung Ho? - I don't think it's a worry.
Just one word, "Consideration".
Because a marriage is all about considering each other.
The only thing left for you is to get married.
- I thought he was already married. - Pardon?
- Really? - I thought I was married too,
but I found out I wasn't.
I also thought that too.
If you don't have a wife at home, you're not married.
I don't think it's a worry.
I think you can live happily from now on.
I don't think it's a worry.
If you still think it's a worry,
please press the button!
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
I wonder how many votes. 138 votes is currently the winner.
Show us the result.
How many votes?
How many votes did "Love is Hard" get?
53 votes.
(53 votes)
The title is "A Comprehensive Set of Worries".
Hello, I'm a housewife...
raising a 2-year-old son.
Before our marriage,
my husband enthusiastically proposed to me.
(Goodness)
"Let's..."
- Hyun Bae, since you're an actor... - I'm bad at dialects.
- You're bad at it? - Yes.
If you get a role that you need to use a dialect, will you reject it?
No, I'll accept it.
"Let's get married, I'll do everything for you."
"Are you sure?"
"I hate people who smoke."
"I'll quit right away."
"I'll buy us rings and a house to live in."
"Please, marry me."
(My goodness, look at this man.)
- He's a chic man. - Goodness.
This was how my husband was.
But three years into our marriage, my husband...
(Sniffing)
"Honey, what's this smell?"
"I smell cigarettes."
"So? Yes, I smoked."
(Shameless)
(You punk!)
I just read a script.
My husband has changed 180°...
and is completely shameless.
I think I'm a victim of a fraudulent marriage.
"Honey, I got the credit card bill today."
"What is this? 370 dollars?"
"Drinking."
"I footed the bill."
"Are you serious?"
(Where is this confidence coming from?)
"What about this 1,600 dollars?"
"What is this?"
"I spent money on cellphone games."
- 1,600 dollars? - "So what?"
(Ultimate shamelessness)
I see. That's why it's a comprehensive set.
- That's why it's titled that. - Right.
"How can you be so shameless?"
Smoking, drinking, and even spending money on games?
Can you agree that I'm a victim of a fraudulent marriage, now?
I can't cancel this marriage, what should I do?
I'm seriously worried.
(Please find my husband's old self.)
Oh, my. Dong Hyun Bae!
You said you were bad at dialects,
- but you're great at it. - It's great.
Gosh, I'm pretty good, right?
- Yes, you are. - Yes.
(He's full of charm.)
What do you think about this story?
I totally get why it was titled, "A Comprehensive Set of Worries".
- Yes. - You're right.
I can sympathize a bit with her husband because...
he said whatever was needed to get married to his wife.
Also, he thought he could do it.
But honestly...
- cigarettes are hard to quit. - They really are.
When a man starts telling me they'll be good...
- You don't believe it? - I don't believe it.
"I love you so much. You're the most beautiful."
I just think, "What a liar."
That's what I think on the inside.
You wanted to say something else,
but you stopped yourself.
You changed to something more suited for TV broadcast.
(She used suitable language.)
You did good. You really did.
You need to train yourself like that.
Now we'll invite our guest with the worry.
Please come on out.
(Who's upset because she feels like she got into a fraudulent marriage?)
(Jeong Ha Yeon)
People who are married...
may feel that this can be overlooked.
They could be thinking that. What are your thoughts?
No. He changed 180°.
- Completely? - Yes.
In the very beginning,
I mentioned that his car's windows were tinted.
The next time I saw him, the windows were tinted.
I mentioned that his skin didn't look so good.
Then he went to a dermatologist, and spent about 1,000 dollars.
That's good.
On our 50-day anniversary,
I got a ring in advance saying it for our 100-day anniversary.
He gave you a ring for your 100-day anniversary on your 50th day?
- Yes. - It was in advance.
Since they will soon reach 100 days.
I said I wanted to live in a new house after we got married,
so he signed a contract for a new house.
That's great.
Sounds great to me. Why complain about cigarettes?
On our second date, I asked him if he smoked, and he said yes.
So I told him that I'm sorry,
but I don't date people who smoke.
He told me he'd quit right away.
Did he quit before you married, while you were dating?
- I thought that he had. - You thought he had.
If he really hadn't quit,
you were serious about not dating him?
Yes, yes.
Besides his round face...
he's not my type. He's not exactly good looking.
(He's not good looking.)
When he told you he would change,
did you believe him 100 percent?
He changed according to whatever I said.
- He showed me through his actions. - Since it was visible.
Before that...
When did he start to change?
When we were on our honeymoon...
- So soon? - No way!
On your honeymoon?
- This is no joke. - Honeymoon?
"I'm going to smoke now."
Other couples were stuck together at the hip.
But he kept disappearing on me.
- He went to smoke. - I looked through his bag.
There were Thai cigarettes, unopened in his bag.
I asked him about it, and he lied.
- What did he say? - He said they were for his friend.
(He lied that they were for a friend.)
I really wondered to myself,
should I keep living with him or not?
- You really hate smoking. - Yes.
How much does he smoke now?
2 to 3 packs in a day.
In a day?
I heard he spends about 300 dollars a month on cigarettes.
(Goodness)
Did he not drink much when you dated?
I don't like to drink.
We've never drank together.
(Her husband distanced himself from drinking too.)
But after we got married,
he drank about 4 or 5 times a week.
He has even slept on the streets.
He stayed out overnight about three times.
He says he called a chauffeur and slept in the parking lot.
- He must drink a lot. - Yes.
You said he spends a lot on drinks too. Was it 300 dollars?
He wants to treat everyone when he meets his friends.
- Oh, my. - He's that type.
He has spent about 1,600 dollars...
on games too.
That's a bit severe.
Is he addicted to games too?
When you bring up these issues with your husband,
how does he respond?
He says people with his surname, Kim, don't listen to others well.
- Really? - Kims don't listen to others?
- My surname is Kim too. - My goodness.
(Disapproves)
- That's not true. - He's generalizing all Kims.
When I ask him if he can quit since his wife hates it,
he says I should understand since he loves it.
I tell him that he's the worst guy that I've ever met.
Then he says, "Thank you. I've always wanted to be a bad guy."
(Transcending our imagination)
- He is a... - What a bad guy.
He's really a bad guy.
(I'm living with a man that is this shameless.)
Now, we'll meet the man who has changed 180°.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(The man who changed 180° after marriage.)
You didn't keep your promise before you married.
You're now being accused of fraud.
As for the promises,
I believe I kept most of them.
You kept most them?
Before we got married,
and when we were dating...
it wasn't just words. I really did everything.
- Did you? - I even quit smoking.
- Oh, really? - You did?
I did quit smoking, but...
You smoked on your honeymoon.
Yes, that's the thing.
- The timespan... - You need to hear the whole story.
How cute.
I did quit smoking.
But my wife suddenly broke up with me...
without any reason at all.
- After you quit? - When you were dating?
- While dating? - Yes.
That's why I started smoking again.
- Because of that? - The stress...
- Being stressed can do that. - I suddenly understand it.
If she hadn't broken up with you, you wouldn't be smoking now?
That's correct.
So according to your husband's reasoning,
you're the cause.
He had quit smoking and suddenly...
I wanted to see how he'd react.
- React how? - You were playing games.
- What? What? - She was playing games with him.
What?
He even quit smoking.
When we got back together, he should've told me.
These days...
he goes to smoke as soon as he wakes up.
- He didn't smell like smoke... - I go to work when I get up.
when I met him back then. What?
I go to work when I get up.
What?
"What, what, what."
She lost her train of thought.
She's flustered.
So then your husband...
has no intention of quitting smoking?
I leave for work at 7am.
I go and supervise construction, do business, budgets, and meetings.
I do all of this work.
I end up drinking 20 to 30 mix coffees.
(Shock)
- You drink too much. - That's far too much.
(He smokes and has an excessive intake of caffeine.)
(He does not take care of himself.)
I have severe stress, and even right now...
I have facial paralysis on the right side.
Is that from the stress?
Or is it possibly the cigarettes and the coffee?
- I don't know the cause. - Okay.
The wife always says the same.
"It's from the alcohol and smoking."
Even the doctors don't know, so how could she know?
(Anyone can see he drinks and smokes a lot.)
Then let me ask you...
would it be okay if your wife drank, and smoked a lot?
When it comes to smoking,
I believe it is fatal for a baby if a woman smokes.
It's the same for men.
It's no different for the baby's dad.
It's not like she's pregnant now.
It's also bad for a baby to bring that smell into the home.
As soon as I get home, I undress and shower right away.
When he drinks, he doesn't undress and shower.
He spends a long time in the living room in the nude.
(A nude show)
People who smoke...
Isn't that a good thing?
- A nude show? - It's not that.
(Embarrassed)
People who smoke don't realize it,
but for those who don't smoke or drink,
the smell of cigarettes and alcohol...
- It's so bad. - It is.
It's hard to deal with.
I only realized after quitting too.
"Did I go around smelling like this?"
- You're right. - I started to wonder that.
- I went through that too. - That's right.
I have no other way of releasing stress.
Even alcohol...
(Currently loading excuses)
I did decrease my drinking a lot.
I am making an effort.
Do you still drink four times a week?
- He decreased it to two. - Okay.
But he'll drink next weeks' worth this week.
(He shouldn't have said he doesn't drink as much.)
Who does that? You lied.
- You could do that forever. - That's smart.
(Keep drinking.)
- You're very cunning. - It's like taking a loan.
That didn't work.
So I told him to pay a fine for punishment.
He paid, at first.
- Now he just does as he pleases. - He doesn't pay his fines?
No, he doesn't.
These days, he's often unreachable.
- You can't reach him? - That's not good.
He sleeps on the streets when he drinks too much.
- He sleeps in his car too. - That's dangerous.
Also, he gets addicted to the claw machine game when he drinks.
He uses about 2,000 to 3,000 dollars.
(My goodness.)
2,000 to 3,000 dollars?
(We keep peeling back the layers, but there are more worries left.)
(This man is like an onion.)
- That's how much he spent. - Sir.
You could buy a machine with that.
We had a room full of the dolls.
One thing you all have to know is...
I don't know where that estimate of 2,000 dollars came from.
I really don't understand it.
Let me ask you then.
Your husband is curious where you got that number from.
I had money in our bank account set apart to pay for insurance.
We had to pay with credit for about three months.
(It was two months.)
He says 2 months, but I know it was 3.
- About three months? - Yes.
That's why you know it's about 2,000 to 3,000 dollars?
That's how she estimated.
How much do you think it is?
It is under 2,000 dollars.
(What...)
It's still in the thousands.
- So how much exactly? - Then is it 1,999 dollars?
- It's still over 1,000 dollars. - It's about 1,700 dollars.
(Either way, he's addicted.)
- Let's make an estimate too. - Okay.
Let's take a look.
You really have a lot. Oh, my.
(Room is full.)
They're not the small ones.
How did you get the gorilla?
Look at that.
You have all kinds. Where did you get those ones?
(His skills are above average.)
I think it might be near 5,000 dollars.
- No, it isn't. - No, no.
You wouldn't be this skilled from the beginning.
That's true.
In my opinion, they would take multiple tries.
You're right.
You can't get those things in one try.
We got rid of two-thirds of it, and we still have a third left.
The house was getting too small. A third of it...
I gave to our friends.
I sold some on the Internet.
- So you had lots from before. - Yes.
Then it could be more than 2,000 to 3,000 dollars.
We gave them away as prizes during our kid's first birthday too.
We received a story regarding the doll claw machine before.
Her husband is no different because he used their insurance money.
- It tells me he has an addiction. - There was 500 dollars in total.
I haven't brought any financial harms to the family.
Then where did you get the money?
You don't need to know.
- What? - I don't need to know?
No. I don't want to talk about it.
Don't ask any questions, He says we don't need to know.
Don't ask any questions.
(So you have emergency funds?)
Let me ask you this.
Do you think your wife changed since marriage?
She has no financial sense.
(I can't believe him.)
When she buys a cell phone, she makes a lump sum payment.
Making installment payments...
over the course of 2 or 3 years...
creates an interest of 20 or 30 dollars.
She doesn't want to pay that, so she uses 1,000 dollars at once.
It would be nice for her to keep a household ledger...
so that she can save up money,
but she always says, "It's all in the credit card statement."
Making a lump sum payment and foregoing a household ledger...
are better than spending thousands on claw machines.
Do you keep a household ledger when you play claw machine games?
I would have been bad had I continued on with my habit,
but I stopped because I learned.
I don't play games these days.
You won every possible item in claw machines.
That's right.
I can't believe him.
I make a lump sum payment...
because I don't want to be in debt.
I think it's better to complete a payment right away.
Why don't you keep a household ledger?
Since I only use a credit card, it's all in the statement.
He uses cash for allowances...
for himself and his parents.
- Hold on. - There are other things.
- Those are for you. - Hold on.
You have fought this way often at home.
You came here because it didn't get you anywhere.
- Listen before you answer. - That's right.
- Listen. - It's important to do that.
Listen.
This couple must have fought many times.
Aren't you glad you are here?
You couldn't have a conversation at home.
(Thank goodness you are here.)
Does your husband treat you well at home?
What? No.
He treats me like a slave.
He lies on the sofa and tells me to bring him water.
He tells me to make him ramyeon...
when he comes home after spending a night out drinking.
In the last month of pregnancy,
my back hurt so much that I asked him to do the dishes.
My belly was too big.
He said his belly is bigger.
(My belly is bigger, so I am struggling more.)
He said he is struggling more.
- He said he is struggling more. - Yes.
(Protruding)
That's awful!
- He does have a big belly. - He said he is struggling more.
Men ask their pregnant wives, "Honey, what do you want to eat?"
My husband asked me, "I want to eat this and that today."
He claims he had morning sickness in my stead...
because he loves me so much.
- What an excuse! - He has a way with words.
He has a way with words.
I told you that he got addicted to a game...
when I was pregnant.
After work, he would give me his cell phone...
and ask me to do the daily quest for him.
Men tell their pregnant wives not to do that...
- because of electromagnetic waves. - Since you were pregnant.
- My husband was different. - Did you do the daily quest?
Yes, I did.
You did everything he asked.
Does he look after the child?
He lies on the sofa and simply looks at the child.
He doesn't look after the child.
- He simply looks at the child. - Yes.
Even when the baby approaches sharp corners or the TV,
he continues to lie down and calls the baby's name.
The baby once got a cut on his forehead.
He once got a nail mark from my husband's long nails.
My goodness.
I was startled when my son got hurt.
However, boys are bound to get hurt...
as they grow up.
(Please care about your family.)
There must be a reason why...
you sent a worry to Hello.
I want my husband to quit smoking.
I want my husband to stop smoking at home.
I hate it, and it's bad for the baby's health.
It stresses me out.
I even developed insomnia.
I want my husband to drink less and stop smoking.
One time, he drank with his friend and said he'd be home early...
and came home at 2am.
He got facial paralysis two days later.
He even has gout. I tell him to lose weight...
because he won't live long if he continues on with his habits.
He goes, "I like my life as it is. I don't care if I die early."
- He says that. - He says that.
Your wife is pleading with you.
Have you no intention to quit smoking?
I want to quit smoking, but it's too hard.
- It sounds like you have no will. - You know,
I would like to suggest something.
The country shouldn't sell cigarettes.
(The country shouldn't sell cigarettes.)
(He even blames the country.)
- Are you blaming the country? - At this rate,
- he will start a petition. - Seriously.
He will start a petition.
Ministry of Health and Welfare should encourage people...
to quit smoking...
by banning cigarettes altogether.
It's not like your wife can start a petition.
I told her to do that.
I told her to start a petition.
She wants to see your will.
When your wife told you about visiting the show,
what was the thought you had?
I didn't know this worry would get picked.
Everyone who sits there says that.
(Everyone who sits there says that.)
Didn't your visit to the show...
let you know that your wife hates your habits...
more than you think?
I don't know. Smoking is one thing, but the others...
Here is what I think from everything she told us.
Since you tend to make light of the situation,
you might think the problem isn't serious.
However, the fact your wife is here...
- tells us she suffered a lot. - I agree.
You heard what your wife wants.
Can you tell us what you can do?
What promise can you keep?
You have gout and facial paralysis. That's why.
Your wife hates it, but it's more for your health.
(Sighing)
How about not smoking at home?
(Aren't you going to make a promise?)
You know from dating him...
that he keeps his word.
He only fell back to his habits because you broke up for two weeks.
That's right. He keeps his word.
So if you promise not to smoke at home,
you can't stop going home.
Don't do that.
When are busy with your daily life and a child,
- it's hard to break a habit. - That's right.
This is a good opportunity.
That's right. You need a good opportunity.
You need to be forced to make a habit.
- When you are at home... - Please.
When you are at home, please don't smoke.
- Please make a promise. - Please say, "Okay."
(Honey, please make a promise.)
(Please don't think about starting a petition.)
(What is he thinking?)
(He tilts his head.)
An older man is begging you, you punk.
How old are you?
(I need a drink after this.)
- When you are at home... - When you are at home, don't smoke.
(Honey, you can do it.)
If you really can't, that's fine, but at least give it a try.
All right. I promise.
(I promise.)
You promise not to smoke at home.
(He finally makes a promise.)
It will be hard when he has withdrawal symptoms.
Will you make him delicious snacks...
that won't make him gain weight?
- Yes, I will. - Okay. She will help.
Okay.
(He tilts his head.)
(I have no confidence.)
She will help. Let me tell you this.
Unless you make some changes,
you won't be able to even if you want to.
You won't even be able to eat.
- Your body is sending. It's urgent. - That's right.
What your wife wants isn't what is important here.
- It could end in a disaster. - That's right.
You know gout increases the risk...
of premature death, right?
- Yes. - There you go.
(He should quit smoking for his health.)
Say a few words to your husband.
- Your health is... - It's most important.
the pillar of this household. It's the most important.
Please take care of your health...
and keep your promise.
Say, "You can make less money."
What?
(You know how I feel, right?)
What was that?
What did she do?
That's the style of Gyeongsang Province.
- That's right. - Seriously.
Everything in your life changed after you got married.
Is there anything that didn't change?
My wife.
I think I am happier now.
- Do you love her more? - Yes.
Tell her that.
I will make you happier.
Let's live well together.
Tell her that you love her dearly.
I love you.
(I love you.)
My goodness.
(Smiling)
(We hope you successfully quit smoking.)
We'll start with Hyun Bae. Is this a worry or not?
If you can have a conversation, it's not a worry.
She is in a difficult situation.
Seriously.
He should express himself more.
He is like my father.
My father drank 2 bottles of soju...
and smoked 2 packs of cigarettes daily.
After 30 years of marriage, my mother became furious.
She suddenly threw tofu at my father's face.
(He quit smoking after that.)
He quit smoking after that.
Your mother is wise.
She humiliated him without hurting him.
That's right. She is wise.
She is wise.
I think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry...
for Ha Yeon, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's see how many votes she got.
Out of 200...
- 9. The last digit is 9 - I think she got a lot of votes.
- Is it over 100? - It's over 100.
(She got over 100 votes.)
Out of 200...
- Is it 129? 139? - It's 119.
(She got 119 votes.)
It's a meaningful number.
119.
- It's an emergency. - The fire in her will be put out.
- The fire will be put out. - Fire.
- Fire. - The fire in her...
should be put out.
"Please Come Back" is this week's winner.
The winner will receive cash prize.
Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
Thank you.
("Believe Me" by Seo In Young)